Jill

He Says...

Okay... from our posts of last year it might have been apparent that a mixture of a healthy sense of sexual adventure, open mindedness, time and opportunity led to a couple of amazingly fun risqué times. If it feels good, do it again, which we did. As it turns out, repeated intimate encounters with the same person breeds friendship. And here we are.

Mrs Rocker started it! We explored repeated intimacy with a couple of guy friends and then we met Jack. Mrs Rocker has said it all, he's a great guy, easy to have around, sexy beyond belief, makes Mrs Rocker literally weak at the knees and has become a good friend.

I met Jill for the first time 4 years ago. She is a single mother of two awesome girls. Strong, independent, sexy and beautiful. It was apparent to me that Jill is a sexual person, and unashamedly so. Being an unashamedly sexual single woman in a small community takes bravery and attracts not a small amount of knocks, harsh judgement, suspicion and jealousy. Mrs Rocker will tell you all about the doors that close and trials and tribulations of being sexy and single in a small town while I lived away for a year and a half . As we all know it's okay being a single highly-sexed guy in a small environment, but a single gal? Not in this world. Of course that's exactly the kind of injustice that gets Mr Rocker onto his soap box.

For 4 years the most involvement I could have with Jill was to respect her for who she was, greet her on occasion and just enjoy her brightening up our office environment. For honourable people in exclusive relationships, that's where it has to remain. But from a starting point of quiet respect and then admiration for Jill from a distance, the possibility of presenting to her some alternative views on sex, intimacy and sexual equality presented itself, for her to share our world where harsh judgement of sexual forwardness is rare. After 6 months of us exploring sexual intimacy with others, I asked (Mrs Rocker will contend that I begged!) if we could share with Jill some of our ideas about how the world should be. Jill is not the least bit naïve, she knew all about alternative lifestyle views when it comes to sexual freedom, but had never met the right people with whom she felt safe to explore. It's fair to say we shocked the crap out of her by revealing to her a few home-truths about our relationship.

Jill has become the most awesome friend and has enriched our lives way beyond how we ever imagined. For me, respect and admiration became attraction and then adoration.